This is how the game saved my hosted multiplayer saves, the one that says "198.27.67.210_16261_deja" is from playing on a public server. The file I can't get to show up is the "party" server and the "party_player" associated file. They both have a ton of stuff in them including the serverid.dat
Here it shows the other servers I started up that are in the same folder as the one I actually want "party", but it doesn't show up? I don't know what I'm missing that's keeping the game from seeing those specific folders.. Thank you for your help so far